Notes on the dialogical, joint nature of human activity: John Shotter, CMN/UNH, May 2001



Below, I want to set out some very special phenomena that occur only when we enter into mutually responsive, dialogically-structured, living, embodied relations with the others and othernesses around us - when we cease to set ourselves, unresponsively, over against them, and allow ourselves to enter into an inter-involvement with them. It is here, in the intricate 'orchestration' of the interplay occurring between our own outgoing, responsive expressions toward those others (or othernesses) and their equally responsive incoming expressions toward us, that a very special kind of understanding of this special phenomenon becomes available to us. The phenomenon in question is the creation within the responsive interplay of all the events and activities at work in the situation at that moment of distinctive, dynamically changing forms, an emerging sequence of changes (or differencings') each one with its own unique 'shape' which, although invisible, is felt by all involved as participants within it in the same way.

It is in the intricate 'orchestration' of the interplay occurring in such living relations, between our own outgoing (responsive) expressions toward the other (or otherness) and their incoming, equally responsive expressions toward us, that a very special kind of practical understanding becomes available to us. In such an understanding, we grasp the nature of these others and othernesses, not as passive and neutral objects, but as "real presences (as agencies)" (Steiner, 1989), toward which we must adopt an "evaluative attitude" (Bakhtin, 1986, p.84). We shall call this a relationally-responsive understanding to contrast it with the representational-referential understanding more familiar to us in our traditional intellectual dealings....This does not occur in all conversations, only in truly reciprocally or mutually responsive ones.